I always forget that Proverbs 31 holds more than "The Wife of Noble Character" passage. There are nine verses preceding it that are words of wisdom from a king's mother. The last two verses struck me strongly. "Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy" (Prov. 31:8-9). I have been considering such ideas quite a bit lately. It seems to me that we need to follow Jesus. He spent time with the misfits and outcasts of society, with the poor. He told them that they were the salt of the earth (Matt. 5:13). We need to recognize the value of all people, regardless of their financial status.
Now...this ideal to which women ought to aspire. Quite frankly, I used to resent Proverbs 31:10-31. That's a tall order! "Her lamp does not go out at night"? (v. 18). She works constantly, and yet she's still dressed in beautiful clothes and looks great. Yeah, right! But as I have matured and really thought about this passage, I have begun to realize that many, many women follow in this woman's footsteps. She does work hard, but she is also wise. "She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard" (Prov. 31:16). Okay, so where did she get the money to buy the field? Well, she works for it: "She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes" (Prov. 31:24). One of the mistakes that Christians make is that it is believed a woman should downplay her beauty and not accent it. No! She makes clothes for a living, and they're nice ones, too. Also, she's making good money from her clothing business and her vineyard (gosh, I'd love to see it), so "she makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple" (Prov. 31:22). In those days, purple dye came from shellfish that were rather rare. So purple clothing was a sign of wealth.
But she does not indulge herself at the expense of others or of her own character. "She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy" (Prov. 31:20). She also takes care of her own household and takes care of her servants. To make a parallel to our society, a wise woman takes care of those who take care of her, whether it's the people who do her drycleaning and bag her groceries, or who are her employees.
She also realizes that "charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised" (Prov. 31:30). "She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come" (Prov. 31:25). And what about her words? Does she gossip or speak ill of others? "She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue" (Prov. 31:26).
So, what is her husband up to? I believe he is "respected at the city gate" (Prov. 31:23) partly because of her. Also, "he praises her: 'Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all'" (Prov. 31:28b-29). He acknowledges her and compliments her. And he doesn't do it just at home to her. Verse 31 says, "Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate." I think her husband brags about her to his buddies. Plus, the city leaders probably recognize her work for the poor.
Is it such a tall order? I don't think so. It's simply a woman following God's call on her life. And when that's your objective, God gives you His strength to accomplish it.
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Monday, October 31, 2005
Friday, October 28, 2005
This and That
I read Proverbs 27 and 28 this morning. Here are verses I highlighted:
"Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring forth" (Prov. 27:1). We may make plans, but we never are completely sure that they will come to fruition. We must look at each day as a gift.
"Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of one's friend springs from his earnest counsel" (Prov. 27:9). A true friend has your best interests at heart, and his or her advice brings joy because of his or her pure motives.
"As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another" (Prov. 27:17). My husband and I requested that our minister include this verse in our wedding. Margaret Fuller said, "Two persons love in one another the future good which they aid one another to unfold." Love is tricky in that you love someone as they are, but also love him and, therefore, help him to achieve the full potential that God has created within him.
"As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man" (Prov. 27:19). If you are miserable, your face shows it. But if you tend to the beauty of your heart, it will flow into your outward appearance.
"Be sure you know the condition of your flocks, give careful attention to your herds; for riches do not endure forever..." (Prov. 27:23-24a). This verse deals with our financial affairs. If you neglect your finances, how can you expect them to be in good health? You must maintain your financial health as you do (or should!) maintain your physical health.
"The wicked man flees though no one pursues, but the righteous are as bold as a lion" (Prov. 28:1). So true! Someone who knows he is wrong often acts very defensively and often thinks he has been found out, even if he and God are the only ones who know what he has done. Conversely, when you are following God's ways, you know you are safe ultimately.
"He who conceals his sins does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy" (Prov. 28:13). This verse makes me wonder again if David drove this point home to his son Solomon over and over. One who harbors a sin in his heart will not find true joy. The funny thing is that oftentimes a person thinks he or she is hiding a sin, but others do know about it. The best thing for everyone is for that person to confront the sin. He or she may find that people will not condemn him or her, but will be supportive and loving.
"He who gives to the poor will lack nothing, but he who closes his eyes to them receives many curses" (Prov. 28:27). This idea keeps nudging me more and more. I am reminded of the verse that says, "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world" (James 1:27). Our society is so driven by materialism. It is destroying our spirits. Chasing after more wealth is like chasing after the wind. The wind always changes, and has one ever grasped the wind between his fingers? It is not right to be blind to the obstacles that face other members of our society. It is pathetic that we often long for more than what we have when we have been blessed with so much. How can we love and save the world if we don't even know what's going on in parts of our own country? I was taught that life is not fair, but I always believed that we should try to make it as fair as possible. Compassion seems to be a lost virtue at times. May God convict our hearts to begin to look for and love all His children.
"Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring forth" (Prov. 27:1). We may make plans, but we never are completely sure that they will come to fruition. We must look at each day as a gift.
"Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of one's friend springs from his earnest counsel" (Prov. 27:9). A true friend has your best interests at heart, and his or her advice brings joy because of his or her pure motives.
"As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another" (Prov. 27:17). My husband and I requested that our minister include this verse in our wedding. Margaret Fuller said, "Two persons love in one another the future good which they aid one another to unfold." Love is tricky in that you love someone as they are, but also love him and, therefore, help him to achieve the full potential that God has created within him.
"As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man" (Prov. 27:19). If you are miserable, your face shows it. But if you tend to the beauty of your heart, it will flow into your outward appearance.
"Be sure you know the condition of your flocks, give careful attention to your herds; for riches do not endure forever..." (Prov. 27:23-24a). This verse deals with our financial affairs. If you neglect your finances, how can you expect them to be in good health? You must maintain your financial health as you do (or should!) maintain your physical health.
"The wicked man flees though no one pursues, but the righteous are as bold as a lion" (Prov. 28:1). So true! Someone who knows he is wrong often acts very defensively and often thinks he has been found out, even if he and God are the only ones who know what he has done. Conversely, when you are following God's ways, you know you are safe ultimately.
"He who conceals his sins does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy" (Prov. 28:13). This verse makes me wonder again if David drove this point home to his son Solomon over and over. One who harbors a sin in his heart will not find true joy. The funny thing is that oftentimes a person thinks he or she is hiding a sin, but others do know about it. The best thing for everyone is for that person to confront the sin. He or she may find that people will not condemn him or her, but will be supportive and loving.
"He who gives to the poor will lack nothing, but he who closes his eyes to them receives many curses" (Prov. 28:27). This idea keeps nudging me more and more. I am reminded of the verse that says, "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world" (James 1:27). Our society is so driven by materialism. It is destroying our spirits. Chasing after more wealth is like chasing after the wind. The wind always changes, and has one ever grasped the wind between his fingers? It is not right to be blind to the obstacles that face other members of our society. It is pathetic that we often long for more than what we have when we have been blessed with so much. How can we love and save the world if we don't even know what's going on in parts of our own country? I was taught that life is not fair, but I always believed that we should try to make it as fair as possible. Compassion seems to be a lost virtue at times. May God convict our hearts to begin to look for and love all His children.
Wednesday, October 26, 2005
Keep It To Yourself
Proverbs 26 isn't the most cheerful of chapters, but two verses stuck out for their wisdom.
"Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will be like him yourself" (Prov. 26:4). In our society, we say, "Don't stoop to his level." This is one of those instances when it's probably best to just drop a matter.
"Like one who seizes a dog by the ears is a passer-by who meddles in a quarrel not his own" (Prov. 26:17). Getting involved in someone else's argument usually doesn't end well.
I pray you measure your words before you speak them and consider your possible actions today.
"Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will be like him yourself" (Prov. 26:4). In our society, we say, "Don't stoop to his level." This is one of those instances when it's probably best to just drop a matter.
"Like one who seizes a dog by the ears is a passer-by who meddles in a quarrel not his own" (Prov. 26:17). Getting involved in someone else's argument usually doesn't end well.
I pray you measure your words before you speak them and consider your possible actions today.
Tuesday, October 25, 2005
The Poetry of Proverbs
Often the wisdom of Proverbs is straightforward. But other times poetic imagery brings the words to life in a way that simple prose just can't match. Enjoy the beauty of the words in the verses from Proverbs 25 I found especially inspiring. Some are comforting and others just hit the nail on the head in the area of undesirable behavior.
"A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver." (Prov. 25:11)
"Like an earring of gold or an ornament of fine gold is a wise man's rebuke to a listening ear." (Prov. 25:12)
"Like the coolness of snow at harvest time is a trustworthy messenger to those who send him; he refreshes the spirit of his masters." (Prov. 25:13)
"Like clouds and wind without rain is a man who boasts of gifts he does not give." (Prov. 25:14)
"Like a bad tooth or a lame foot is reliance on the unfaithful in times of trouble." (Prov. 25:19)
"Like one who takes away a garment on a cold day, or like vinegar poured on soda, is one who sings songs to a heavy heart." (Prov. 25:20). Sometimes it helps to cheer up one who is down, but sometimes you ought to "mourn with those who mourn" (Romans 12:15b).
"Like cold water to a weary soul is good news from a distant land." (Prov. 25:25)
"Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control." (Prov. 25:28)
I hope you enjoyed the analogies in the verses as much as I did. May you store up the wisdom of them in your heart.
"A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver." (Prov. 25:11)
"Like an earring of gold or an ornament of fine gold is a wise man's rebuke to a listening ear." (Prov. 25:12)
"Like the coolness of snow at harvest time is a trustworthy messenger to those who send him; he refreshes the spirit of his masters." (Prov. 25:13)
"Like clouds and wind without rain is a man who boasts of gifts he does not give." (Prov. 25:14)
"Like a bad tooth or a lame foot is reliance on the unfaithful in times of trouble." (Prov. 25:19)
"Like one who takes away a garment on a cold day, or like vinegar poured on soda, is one who sings songs to a heavy heart." (Prov. 25:20). Sometimes it helps to cheer up one who is down, but sometimes you ought to "mourn with those who mourn" (Romans 12:15b).
"Like cold water to a weary soul is good news from a distant land." (Prov. 25:25)
"Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control." (Prov. 25:28)
I hope you enjoyed the analogies in the verses as much as I did. May you store up the wisdom of them in your heart.
Monday, October 24, 2005
The Strength and Beauty of Wisdom
The strength and beauty of wisdom are illuminated in Proverbs 24. Verses 3 and 4 are particularly delightful. "By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures" (Prov. 24:3-4). This past weekend, my husband and I worked on organizing our garage. I ran across some little treasures as well as some old letters and essays from my high school years. This passage reminds me that impeccable furniture and flawless decor do not make a home. A home is built of laughter, long talks about God's love for us, our hopes for our work for Him, and memories of those we love. Here's another beautiful verse about wisdom: "Know also that wisdom is sweet to your soul; if you find it, there is a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off" (Prov. 24:14).
Wisdom blesses us with hope and strength for the present as well as the future. "A wise man has great power, and a man of knowledge increases strength" (Prov. 24:5). Verse 10 says, "If you falter in times of trouble, how small is your strength!" Now, of course, times of trouble are difficult. But if you have been storing up wisdom and the strength it begets, when those hard times come, you will be more able to face them with courage and peace.
Also in this chapter are some verses about how to respond to those who hurt you.
"Do not gloat when your enemy falls; when he stumbles, do not let your heart rejoice, or the LORD will see and disapprove..." (Prov. 24:17-18a).
"Do not fret because of evil men or be envious of the wicked, for the evil man has no future hope, and the lamp of the wicked will be snuffed out" (Prov. 24:19-20).
"Do not say, 'I'll do that to him as he has done to me; I'll pay that man back for what he did'" (Prov. 24:29).
These verses remind me of what Jesus would say centuries later: "'Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven'" (Matt. 5:44-45a).
Wisdom doesn't always make sense to our earthly minds. But the more you follow your Savior, the more His words make sense.
Wisdom blesses us with hope and strength for the present as well as the future. "A wise man has great power, and a man of knowledge increases strength" (Prov. 24:5). Verse 10 says, "If you falter in times of trouble, how small is your strength!" Now, of course, times of trouble are difficult. But if you have been storing up wisdom and the strength it begets, when those hard times come, you will be more able to face them with courage and peace.
Also in this chapter are some verses about how to respond to those who hurt you.
"Do not gloat when your enemy falls; when he stumbles, do not let your heart rejoice, or the LORD will see and disapprove..." (Prov. 24:17-18a).
"Do not fret because of evil men or be envious of the wicked, for the evil man has no future hope, and the lamp of the wicked will be snuffed out" (Prov. 24:19-20).
"Do not say, 'I'll do that to him as he has done to me; I'll pay that man back for what he did'" (Prov. 24:29).
These verses remind me of what Jesus would say centuries later: "'Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven'" (Matt. 5:44-45a).
Wisdom doesn't always make sense to our earthly minds. But the more you follow your Savior, the more His words make sense.
Friday, October 21, 2005
Making God's Desires Your Own
I have been thinking lately about what it is that God desires most. I believe that 1) God desires glory for Himself and that we will glorify Him with our lives, and 2) God desires peace and love to exist among His people and between Himself and His people. I thought of the tidings of the angels at the announcement of Jesus' birth to the shepherds: "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace among men in whom he is well pleased" (Luke 2:14; American Standard Version).
I have also begun to think about what is truly in our hearts as Christians. Do we act as we do because we truly desire what God desires or because that's what we've been taught to do, and we've been brought up to be a "good person"? One's actions do not always reveal what is really in his or her heart. But God knows each of our hearts, even better than each of us knows himself or herself. Solomon put it this way: "All a man's ways seem right to him, but the LORD weighs the heart" (Prov. 21:2, emphasis added). It is one thing to keep silent when someone wrongs you, but it is another thing entirely to pray for that person (Matthew 5:44). Who was it that suggested that? Oh, yeah, only Jesus, the One we claim to be following if we are Christians! I suggest that we follow Solomon's lead as he wrote in Proverbs 21:1, "The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD; he directs it like a watercourse wherever he pleases." Wouldn't it be nice if all leaders did this?
Proverbs 21 offers more insight into the desires of God's heart as well as how, in the end, "it all comes out in the wash."
"When justice is done, it brings JOY to the righteous but terror to evildoers" (Prov. 21:15). God is a God of justice. It cannot be any other way since He is supreme good. Injustices incur wrath in God. Let us remember that we each also incur the wrath of God. Thankfully, however, He is also a loving God of mercy and forgiveness, who does not wish any of His children to perish (2 Peter 3:9b), and His Son willed Himself to atone for our numerous sins.
"He who pursues righteousness and love finds life, prosperity and honor" (Prov. 21:21). Here's another example of a lasting reward (as opposed to a temporary reward, as I discussed in yesterday's post). God will reward those who desire what He desires.
"There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the LORD. The horse is made ready for the day of battle, but victory rests with the LORD" (Prov. 21:30-31). As Paul said, "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31b). I love verses like this. Makes me want to stick my tongue out at Satan. What arrogance to think he could ever ultimately win against God. Actually, it makes me want to get out my sword and get ready for spiritual battle. Well, I already have (Ephesians 6:17)! But I can't wait to see God triumph over Satan at the end of time. That will be so cool. Back to Proverbs 21:30-31...what comfort this passage holds for those of us who claim God as our Father!
I pray that you cling to God and His ways today, for His ways are the just and loving ways that bring life.
I have also begun to think about what is truly in our hearts as Christians. Do we act as we do because we truly desire what God desires or because that's what we've been taught to do, and we've been brought up to be a "good person"? One's actions do not always reveal what is really in his or her heart. But God knows each of our hearts, even better than each of us knows himself or herself. Solomon put it this way: "All a man's ways seem right to him, but the LORD weighs the heart" (Prov. 21:2, emphasis added). It is one thing to keep silent when someone wrongs you, but it is another thing entirely to pray for that person (Matthew 5:44). Who was it that suggested that? Oh, yeah, only Jesus, the One we claim to be following if we are Christians! I suggest that we follow Solomon's lead as he wrote in Proverbs 21:1, "The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD; he directs it like a watercourse wherever he pleases." Wouldn't it be nice if all leaders did this?
Proverbs 21 offers more insight into the desires of God's heart as well as how, in the end, "it all comes out in the wash."
"When justice is done, it brings JOY to the righteous but terror to evildoers" (Prov. 21:15). God is a God of justice. It cannot be any other way since He is supreme good. Injustices incur wrath in God. Let us remember that we each also incur the wrath of God. Thankfully, however, He is also a loving God of mercy and forgiveness, who does not wish any of His children to perish (2 Peter 3:9b), and His Son willed Himself to atone for our numerous sins.
"He who pursues righteousness and love finds life, prosperity and honor" (Prov. 21:21). Here's another example of a lasting reward (as opposed to a temporary reward, as I discussed in yesterday's post). God will reward those who desire what He desires.
"There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the LORD. The horse is made ready for the day of battle, but victory rests with the LORD" (Prov. 21:30-31). As Paul said, "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31b). I love verses like this. Makes me want to stick my tongue out at Satan. What arrogance to think he could ever ultimately win against God. Actually, it makes me want to get out my sword and get ready for spiritual battle. Well, I already have (Ephesians 6:17)! But I can't wait to see God triumph over Satan at the end of time. That will be so cool. Back to Proverbs 21:30-31...what comfort this passage holds for those of us who claim God as our Father!
I pray that you cling to God and His ways today, for His ways are the just and loving ways that bring life.
Thursday, October 20, 2005
Temporary Rewards vs. Lasting Rewards
Rewards are a significant factor in creating motivation. If we know there's a good thing at the end of our work, we will usually do the work. The trick is to understand the difference between temporary rewards and lasting rewards. Proverbs 20 offers wisdom in considering the different types of rewards and their implications.
"A sluggard does not plow in season; so at harvest he looks but finds nothing" (Prov. 20:4). A lazy person "rewards" himself with relaxation in the present moment. But a wise worker understands the future will come, so he rewards himself with food at harvest time by doing the work when it needs to be done.
"The righteous man leads a blameless life; blessed are his children after him" (Prov. 20:7). Parents must make difficult choices in raising their children. Sometimes it is tempting to participate in unethical or questionable behavior in work situations in order to advance one's career. One could justify that he or she is trying to make more money for the benefit of his or her children. But at what cost? Being a model of integrity is a better blessing to one's kids than more money, or the hope of more money. Sometimes it seems better to give one's children many things, such as toys and clothes. But in the long run, the children may become spoiled by such extravagance, may never be satisfied in their adult lives, and may not have thankful hearts. A heart of contentment and gratitude is a greater blessing than dozens of toys under a Christmas tree that will eventually end up being relegated to the attic. (Note: Giving to one's children is certainly a good thing. Just be aware of how many things and be sure to develop their own generosity to others.)
"Even a child is known by his actions, by whether his conduct is pure and right" (Prov. 20:11). I am not a parent, but I imagine that it is often exhausting and frustrating when disciplining a child. It is easier to give in to a child, but when a lesson in developing his or her character is at hand, you will be blessing your child with lasting rewards by sticking to your guns and doing what you know what is best for your child in the long run. Better to develop good habits early on than to do to break bad habits later.
"Do not say, 'I'll pay you back for this wrong!' Wait for the LORD, and he will deliver you" (Prov. 20:22). This one really doesn't make sense to the world. The choice in this situation is either the temporary reward of getting revenge or the lasting reward of knowing you are acting as God would want you to. Plus, I don't think vengeance brings joy. But deliverance does.
So what do we do when the way to lasting rewards doesn't seem to make sense? Here's what Solomon said: "A man's steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand his own way?" (Prov. 20:24). If you are truly seeking God's will for your life and are following the Spirit's prompting, you may not even understand what you're doing! But God will know where He is leading you. And that's all you really need to know. Remember: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28).
Here's the "oops, I messed up again and didn't do the wise thing" verse: "Who can say, 'I have kept my heart pure; I am clean and without sin'?" (Prov. 20:9). Answer: None of us! So don't beat yourself up about it. Do the wise thing, which is to learn from your errors and move on. Life is too short not to pursue an abundant life, and wisdom is one of the ways to secure a life of joy.
"A sluggard does not plow in season; so at harvest he looks but finds nothing" (Prov. 20:4). A lazy person "rewards" himself with relaxation in the present moment. But a wise worker understands the future will come, so he rewards himself with food at harvest time by doing the work when it needs to be done.
"The righteous man leads a blameless life; blessed are his children after him" (Prov. 20:7). Parents must make difficult choices in raising their children. Sometimes it is tempting to participate in unethical or questionable behavior in work situations in order to advance one's career. One could justify that he or she is trying to make more money for the benefit of his or her children. But at what cost? Being a model of integrity is a better blessing to one's kids than more money, or the hope of more money. Sometimes it seems better to give one's children many things, such as toys and clothes. But in the long run, the children may become spoiled by such extravagance, may never be satisfied in their adult lives, and may not have thankful hearts. A heart of contentment and gratitude is a greater blessing than dozens of toys under a Christmas tree that will eventually end up being relegated to the attic. (Note: Giving to one's children is certainly a good thing. Just be aware of how many things and be sure to develop their own generosity to others.)
"Even a child is known by his actions, by whether his conduct is pure and right" (Prov. 20:11). I am not a parent, but I imagine that it is often exhausting and frustrating when disciplining a child. It is easier to give in to a child, but when a lesson in developing his or her character is at hand, you will be blessing your child with lasting rewards by sticking to your guns and doing what you know what is best for your child in the long run. Better to develop good habits early on than to do to break bad habits later.
"Do not say, 'I'll pay you back for this wrong!' Wait for the LORD, and he will deliver you" (Prov. 20:22). This one really doesn't make sense to the world. The choice in this situation is either the temporary reward of getting revenge or the lasting reward of knowing you are acting as God would want you to. Plus, I don't think vengeance brings joy. But deliverance does.
So what do we do when the way to lasting rewards doesn't seem to make sense? Here's what Solomon said: "A man's steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand his own way?" (Prov. 20:24). If you are truly seeking God's will for your life and are following the Spirit's prompting, you may not even understand what you're doing! But God will know where He is leading you. And that's all you really need to know. Remember: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28).
Here's the "oops, I messed up again and didn't do the wise thing" verse: "Who can say, 'I have kept my heart pure; I am clean and without sin'?" (Prov. 20:9). Answer: None of us! So don't beat yourself up about it. Do the wise thing, which is to learn from your errors and move on. Life is too short not to pursue an abundant life, and wisdom is one of the ways to secure a life of joy.
Wednesday, October 19, 2005
Decisions, Decisions, Decisions
We all have decisions to make on a daily basis. Sometimes, though, we face major decisions. Now is one of those times for me. So, Proverbs 19 holds some very good advice.
"It is not good to have zeal without knowledge, nor to be hasty and miss the way" (Prov. 19:2). One should always consider a matter carefully, collecting as much information about the topic as possible. It is also wise to take one's time in making a decision.
"Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails" (Prov. 19:21). So, I can only conclude that if you desire God's will and purpose in your life, then you will always succeed. It may not always feel like it, and your plans may change, but if you truly desire what God desires, you have the assurance that you are living your life appropriately and will have God's blessing.
"The fear of the LORD leads to life: Then one rests content, untouched by trouble" (Prov. 19:23). Again, if you honor God with your life, everyday stresses tend to lessen. You will still have to face the frustrations and troubles of this earthly life, but you will be blessed by the comfort that only God can give.
One verse off this topic that I found interesting is Proverbs 19:15a: "Laziness brings on deep sleep...." (Actually, being lazy is a decision, too.) I'm not sure what the intention of this phrase is. But I have found that the more you avoid work or issues you don't want to face, the harder it is to do it. Better to go ahead and do what needs to be done than to put it off, thereby making it even more difficult than it would have been starting out.
I ask you to pray for my church's minister. He is doing mighty things for God that Satan will probably try to attack. Pray for Rick, the leaders of the church, and the church as a whole, so it will support the efforts of the church. Thank you!
"It is not good to have zeal without knowledge, nor to be hasty and miss the way" (Prov. 19:2). One should always consider a matter carefully, collecting as much information about the topic as possible. It is also wise to take one's time in making a decision.
"Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails" (Prov. 19:21). So, I can only conclude that if you desire God's will and purpose in your life, then you will always succeed. It may not always feel like it, and your plans may change, but if you truly desire what God desires, you have the assurance that you are living your life appropriately and will have God's blessing.
"The fear of the LORD leads to life: Then one rests content, untouched by trouble" (Prov. 19:23). Again, if you honor God with your life, everyday stresses tend to lessen. You will still have to face the frustrations and troubles of this earthly life, but you will be blessed by the comfort that only God can give.
One verse off this topic that I found interesting is Proverbs 19:15a: "Laziness brings on deep sleep...." (Actually, being lazy is a decision, too.) I'm not sure what the intention of this phrase is. But I have found that the more you avoid work or issues you don't want to face, the harder it is to do it. Better to go ahead and do what needs to be done than to put it off, thereby making it even more difficult than it would have been starting out.
I ask you to pray for my church's minister. He is doing mighty things for God that Satan will probably try to attack. Pray for Rick, the leaders of the church, and the church as a whole, so it will support the efforts of the church. Thank you!
Tuesday, October 18, 2005
Words, Work, Etc.
Proverbs 18 is another chapter that addresses a variety of issues. We'll start off with one of the threads that is the tapestry of Proverbs: our words.
"The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit" (Prov. 18:21). Other places in the chapter, Solomon talks about "the fruit of a man's mouth." Basically, the messages you send with your mouth are what you are feeding yourself. If you are feeding yourself spiteful, negative, or crude messages, you ought not expect your spirit to be very healthy.
"A fool finds no pleasure in understanding but delights in airing his own opinions" (Prov. 18:2). Most of us know at least one person who likes to talk but doesn't like to listen. Not much else to say, except that behavior like that is foolish.
"He who answers before listening--that is his folly and his shame" (Prov. 18:13). Very similar behavior to that addressed in the previous verse. It is impossible to have a reasonable discussion with a person like this, so don't bother getting frustrated. It's not worth the energy! Again, behavior like this alienates people and ends up making the speaker/non-listener look stupid because this type of person does not speak based on knowledge or what others say.
Now for a verse on relationships. "A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother" (Prov. 18:24). Some people tend to have a wide circle of friends and acquaintances, and others have a small circle of very close friends. I have always belonged to the second group. There is absolutely nothing wrong or wiser about having a large number of friends. But there are only a few friends in one's life who will be loyal no matter what happens. These are the friends who are gifts from God and are such a support to our hearts.
Friends help us in so many ways, one being keeping our spirits up in hard times. Verse 14 demonstrates the importance of this. "A man's spirit sustains him in sickness, but a crushed spirit who can bear?" (Prov. 18:14). As I've said before, we live in a fallen world; therefore, bad things will happen to us. But it is wise to focus on God and surround yourself with people who will redirect your eyes back to God when you become downcast. That is the way to make it through the bad times.
A word about work ethic: "One who is slack in his work is brother to one who destroys" (Prov. 18:9). It seems that not many people truly take pride in their work these days. The way to success in many workplaces is to do the bare minimum and rely on office politics to safeguard one's position. That may bring worldly success, but it is NOT God's way. Don't be discouraged when others around you are rewarded when they have done nothing of merit. Remember Colossians 3:23-25: "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for his wrong, and there is no favoritism."
It's a tough world out there, people. So what do we do when we are so beaten down by it that we feel helpless? "The name of the LORD is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe" (Prov. 18:10). 'Nuff said.
"The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit" (Prov. 18:21). Other places in the chapter, Solomon talks about "the fruit of a man's mouth." Basically, the messages you send with your mouth are what you are feeding yourself. If you are feeding yourself spiteful, negative, or crude messages, you ought not expect your spirit to be very healthy.
"A fool finds no pleasure in understanding but delights in airing his own opinions" (Prov. 18:2). Most of us know at least one person who likes to talk but doesn't like to listen. Not much else to say, except that behavior like that is foolish.
"He who answers before listening--that is his folly and his shame" (Prov. 18:13). Very similar behavior to that addressed in the previous verse. It is impossible to have a reasonable discussion with a person like this, so don't bother getting frustrated. It's not worth the energy! Again, behavior like this alienates people and ends up making the speaker/non-listener look stupid because this type of person does not speak based on knowledge or what others say.
Now for a verse on relationships. "A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother" (Prov. 18:24). Some people tend to have a wide circle of friends and acquaintances, and others have a small circle of very close friends. I have always belonged to the second group. There is absolutely nothing wrong or wiser about having a large number of friends. But there are only a few friends in one's life who will be loyal no matter what happens. These are the friends who are gifts from God and are such a support to our hearts.
Friends help us in so many ways, one being keeping our spirits up in hard times. Verse 14 demonstrates the importance of this. "A man's spirit sustains him in sickness, but a crushed spirit who can bear?" (Prov. 18:14). As I've said before, we live in a fallen world; therefore, bad things will happen to us. But it is wise to focus on God and surround yourself with people who will redirect your eyes back to God when you become downcast. That is the way to make it through the bad times.
A word about work ethic: "One who is slack in his work is brother to one who destroys" (Prov. 18:9). It seems that not many people truly take pride in their work these days. The way to success in many workplaces is to do the bare minimum and rely on office politics to safeguard one's position. That may bring worldly success, but it is NOT God's way. Don't be discouraged when others around you are rewarded when they have done nothing of merit. Remember Colossians 3:23-25: "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for his wrong, and there is no favoritism."
It's a tough world out there, people. So what do we do when we are so beaten down by it that we feel helpless? "The name of the LORD is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe" (Prov. 18:10). 'Nuff said.
Monday, October 17, 2005
Postscript to "Keeping Your Mouth Shut..."
I thought about this earlier, but I guess I forgot about it. But I think it is vital that you understand this before you attempt to tame your tongue. James said, "[N]o man can tame the tongue" (James 3:8a). Before you say, "See? I told you so. I shouldn't even try because I know I'll fail," consider Philippians 4:13: "I can do everything through Him who gives me strength." You will not be able to tame your tongue with your own efforts alone. Ask God to give you the wisdom, strength, guidance, and desire to control your words. Ask Him with your whole heart and will. You must be willing for His will to be accomplished in you.
Whew! Okay, I feel better now!
Whew! Okay, I feel better now!
Keeping Your Mouth Shut Is Step 1
While the fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, it may be possible that just keeping your mouth shut is the precursor to wisdom. In Proverbs 17:28, Solomon says, "Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue." James, in the New Testament, spent most of a chapter explaining the importance of taming the tongue. "With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God's likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be" (James 3:9-10). If we truly want to follow Christ and bring glory to our Father, we must learn to weigh our words. Consider the power of words. We can do damage with our words, or we can do good with them. Life, really, boils down to a series of choices. We are called to be peacemakers (Matthew 5:9). For these reasons, let us consider the words of Proverbs 17 on these matters.
"Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out" (Prov. 17:14). I'm glad I haven't kept a record of how many stupid arguments I have perpetuated with my husband. I would be embarrassed by how long the list would be. In a card given to us for our wedding from my mom and dad, my mom had written a paraphrase of what their minister had said in a sermon. It went something like this: "When two people stand before God in Judgment, they're going to feel pretty silly telling Him they split up over how the toothpaste cap was put on." Those arguments are so ridiculous, but they are also dangerous. We have seen recently the devastation that comes from a dam breached. So think wisely before you open your mouth.
"He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends" (Prov. 17:9). When someone offends us, one of the first things we do is tell someone else about it. We say we need to vent, that we need to have someone validate our feelings. Are you bringing joy to the world when you do this? (By the way, I'm saying 'ouch' the whole time I'm writing this.) And if the person who offended us and the person to whom we are repeating the story know each other...well, you're demonstrating a severe lack of good judgment. Are you promoting peace and love between fellow human beings? Nope. Is God pleased when you do that? Nope. Ouch.
"Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, with strife" (Prov. 17:1). We've all been in a situation at a dinner table in which the tension was so thick, it could be cut with, not a knife, but a spoon. Filet mignon, new potatoes with rosemary, and crisp salad could be the menu, but you will not enjoy that meal. Who could with such hostility lurking underneath the table? And God help everyone if the insults are passed around with as much frequency as the salt shaker. That reminds me that we are also to be the salt of the earth (Matthew 5:13). We are to preserve the unity and love that God bequeathed to us. Back to the dinner imagery...I'd rather eat Ramen noodles and be laughing my head off at something entertaining my husband said than eat in the finest restaurants in the world and be miserable.
Be honest with yourself as you consider these issues. Remember, too, that "the LORD tests the heart" (Prov. 17:3b). You cannot lie to Him. He knows you better than you know yourself. But He wants you to have life abundantly.
One more thought to keep in mind, particularly as we approach flu season. "A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones" (Prov. 17:23). Keep your focus on God. Line your thoughts up with His. His ways are healing, and they are the way to life. Remember that a joyful spirit reduces the occurrence of stress, and stress is a key factor in becoming sick.
"Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out" (Prov. 17:14). I'm glad I haven't kept a record of how many stupid arguments I have perpetuated with my husband. I would be embarrassed by how long the list would be. In a card given to us for our wedding from my mom and dad, my mom had written a paraphrase of what their minister had said in a sermon. It went something like this: "When two people stand before God in Judgment, they're going to feel pretty silly telling Him they split up over how the toothpaste cap was put on." Those arguments are so ridiculous, but they are also dangerous. We have seen recently the devastation that comes from a dam breached. So think wisely before you open your mouth.
"He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends" (Prov. 17:9). When someone offends us, one of the first things we do is tell someone else about it. We say we need to vent, that we need to have someone validate our feelings. Are you bringing joy to the world when you do this? (By the way, I'm saying 'ouch' the whole time I'm writing this.) And if the person who offended us and the person to whom we are repeating the story know each other...well, you're demonstrating a severe lack of good judgment. Are you promoting peace and love between fellow human beings? Nope. Is God pleased when you do that? Nope. Ouch.
"Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, with strife" (Prov. 17:1). We've all been in a situation at a dinner table in which the tension was so thick, it could be cut with, not a knife, but a spoon. Filet mignon, new potatoes with rosemary, and crisp salad could be the menu, but you will not enjoy that meal. Who could with such hostility lurking underneath the table? And God help everyone if the insults are passed around with as much frequency as the salt shaker. That reminds me that we are also to be the salt of the earth (Matthew 5:13). We are to preserve the unity and love that God bequeathed to us. Back to the dinner imagery...I'd rather eat Ramen noodles and be laughing my head off at something entertaining my husband said than eat in the finest restaurants in the world and be miserable.
Be honest with yourself as you consider these issues. Remember, too, that "the LORD tests the heart" (Prov. 17:3b). You cannot lie to Him. He knows you better than you know yourself. But He wants you to have life abundantly.
One more thought to keep in mind, particularly as we approach flu season. "A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones" (Prov. 17:23). Keep your focus on God. Line your thoughts up with His. His ways are healing, and they are the way to life. Remember that a joyful spirit reduces the occurrence of stress, and stress is a key factor in becoming sick.
Friday, October 14, 2005
Anger and Guarding Your Heart
Anger management--certainly a skill that we all need to hone. Some people are fairly laidback, while others have steam coming out of their ears at the slightest annoyance. One thing I know for sure: when you manage the emotion of anger, you feel so much better. I would imagine that your physical health improves, too. Now, the emotion of anger is not wrong in and of itself. I believe it is a good thing that we become angry when hearing of injustices and abuses in our world. But we must monitor what we get angry about. For example, it's pretty fruitless and stupid to get angry about a fly buzzing around one's house. We must not let anger consume us. Proverbs 14 holds 3 verses that are reminders how important it is for us to manage this emotion.
"A wise man fears the LORD and shuns evil, but a fool is hotheaded and reckless." (Prov. 14:16)
"A quick-tempered man does foolish things, and a crafty man is hated." (Prov. 14:17)
"A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man displays folly." (Prov. 14:29)
So, the next time you find your anger beginning to boil, check yourself before you do something stupid, such as breaking an object or someone's heart.
Some other verses I found interesting....
"A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones" (Prov. 14:30). I have struggled with envy. It is not a pleasant feeling. For this reason, it is so important to guard your heart against such emotions. The horrible thing about envy is that it takes root easily, and the roots grow deep very quickly. Greed, malice, and hatred often shoot off of envy that has been allowed to stay in one's heart. Don't just prune away at your envy; dig it up, roots and all. And how do you do that? Consciously thinking of all you have that not everyone has is a good strategy. Doing it every day and writing down what you think of, a la a gratitude journal, is often helpful. Also, considering the difficulties the person of whom you are envious is facing is also a good strategy.
"All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty" (Prov. 14:23). As the phrase goes, "all talk and no action." Talking about plans can be a great motivator to actually getting the job done. But beware of talking about it to avoid doing it. One really looks foolish in that situation.
"The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down" (Prov. 14:1). This could probably be applied to many different situations. To me, at this moment, it is an inspiration to be persistent about improving the physical aspects of my home as well as about working on the talents and skills God has given me so that I use them to His glory. This verse can also be applied to maintaining marital relationships. Great marriages are not built overnight!
"Each heart knows its own bitterness, and no one else can share its joy" (Prov. 14:10). This verse intrigued me, and I looked it up in a variety of translations of the Bible. I'm not exactly sure what Solomon had in mind when he wrote that. But my interpretation is that each of us has sorrows, and each of us has joys. Others can sympathize and can rejoice with a person, but no one can experience exactly what that person feels. I think that is why knowing God is such a comfort. He made each of us and knows each individual better than that person knows himself or herself. And Jesus came to earth in order to experience life as a human being so He could serve as an intercessor on our behalf, knowing what it feels like to be human. The amazing wisdom of God, to know that's what we would need!
"A wise man fears the LORD and shuns evil, but a fool is hotheaded and reckless." (Prov. 14:16)
"A quick-tempered man does foolish things, and a crafty man is hated." (Prov. 14:17)
"A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man displays folly." (Prov. 14:29)
So, the next time you find your anger beginning to boil, check yourself before you do something stupid, such as breaking an object or someone's heart.
Some other verses I found interesting....
"A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones" (Prov. 14:30). I have struggled with envy. It is not a pleasant feeling. For this reason, it is so important to guard your heart against such emotions. The horrible thing about envy is that it takes root easily, and the roots grow deep very quickly. Greed, malice, and hatred often shoot off of envy that has been allowed to stay in one's heart. Don't just prune away at your envy; dig it up, roots and all. And how do you do that? Consciously thinking of all you have that not everyone has is a good strategy. Doing it every day and writing down what you think of, a la a gratitude journal, is often helpful. Also, considering the difficulties the person of whom you are envious is facing is also a good strategy.
"All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty" (Prov. 14:23). As the phrase goes, "all talk and no action." Talking about plans can be a great motivator to actually getting the job done. But beware of talking about it to avoid doing it. One really looks foolish in that situation.
"The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down" (Prov. 14:1). This could probably be applied to many different situations. To me, at this moment, it is an inspiration to be persistent about improving the physical aspects of my home as well as about working on the talents and skills God has given me so that I use them to His glory. This verse can also be applied to maintaining marital relationships. Great marriages are not built overnight!
"Each heart knows its own bitterness, and no one else can share its joy" (Prov. 14:10). This verse intrigued me, and I looked it up in a variety of translations of the Bible. I'm not exactly sure what Solomon had in mind when he wrote that. But my interpretation is that each of us has sorrows, and each of us has joys. Others can sympathize and can rejoice with a person, but no one can experience exactly what that person feels. I think that is why knowing God is such a comfort. He made each of us and knows each individual better than that person knows himself or herself. And Jesus came to earth in order to experience life as a human being so He could serve as an intercessor on our behalf, knowing what it feels like to be human. The amazing wisdom of God, to know that's what we would need!
Thursday, October 13, 2005
Money Matters and More
If you're feeling like some areas of your day-to-day life need some organization (or an overhaul), Proverbs sure is the book to read. It's almost exhausting sometimes to read, isn't it? Well, let's all remember that "I can do everything through him who gives me strength" (Philippians 4:13).
Solomon gives more advice on money matters in Proverbs 13. The first is really more of an observation and advice on how we should view money. He says, "One man pretends to be rich, yet has nothing; another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth" (Prov. 13:7). Stories abound about wealthy people appearing in public and presenting themselves as "average" people. I always like to hear about these stories. I think they help in many ways. First of all, if you are wealthy, you shouldn't be showing it off. God gave it to you in the first place, and it is wise to remember that. Secondly, if you are not so wealthy, you are probably more of a victim to that disease of wishing you had what someone else has. I have found that people who look like they have a great deal of money often don't. They have numerous creditors instead! You cannot judge wealth by appearances. And does it really matter anyway?
So what should we all do in managing our money? We should not crave wealth, but God does make us stewards of what He has blessed us with. Furthermore, verse 22 does say, "A good man leaves an inheritance for his children's children." The Bible is full of direction in how to manage our finances. Verse 11b says, "[H]e who gathers money little by little makes it grow." Our society has trained us to want things immediately. But that is not God's way; therefore, that is not the way of wisdom.
This leads to an area related to money matters. What does it take to save money? Diligence and discipline. We must also consider an opposite trait: laziness. Most of us struggle with this in some area of our lives. What warning does God give? "The sluggard craves and gets nothing, but the desires of the diligent are fully satisfied" (Prov. 13:4). If you really want something, you'd better be prepared to work for it. God does bless us with things when we don't deserve them, but because He is a God of justice, He also rewards people for their hard work. And don't you just feel better when you've accomplished something, particularly when you didn't feel like doing it? The phrase "A clean house is a godly house" just popped into my head. Hmmm...sigh!
There are two other verses I found in Proverbs 13 that I'd like to share.
"Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice" (Prov. 13:10). Isn't that true? When we humble ourselves, things seem to be so much more peaceful. And when you are humble, it's easier to accept your flaws and learn how to improve in those areas. Who wouldn't want to improve himself or herself?
"He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm" (Prov. 13:20). Here is yet another warning about choosing your company. Whatever you are allowing yourself to be exposed to, whether it's the people with whom you interact, the television shows you watch, or the food you eat, that is what you will become. We must be very careful about what we take into our minds, hearts, and bodies.
Being a Christ-follower is a tough business. No one ever said it would be easy. Jesus said that His burden is light, though, compared to the burdens we carry with our own strength alone. So remember today that He's there to help you carry whatever it is you're dealing with. Give up your humanly pride and ask Him for some help. He wants you to look like Him, so He's eager to help you.
Solomon gives more advice on money matters in Proverbs 13. The first is really more of an observation and advice on how we should view money. He says, "One man pretends to be rich, yet has nothing; another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth" (Prov. 13:7). Stories abound about wealthy people appearing in public and presenting themselves as "average" people. I always like to hear about these stories. I think they help in many ways. First of all, if you are wealthy, you shouldn't be showing it off. God gave it to you in the first place, and it is wise to remember that. Secondly, if you are not so wealthy, you are probably more of a victim to that disease of wishing you had what someone else has. I have found that people who look like they have a great deal of money often don't. They have numerous creditors instead! You cannot judge wealth by appearances. And does it really matter anyway?
So what should we all do in managing our money? We should not crave wealth, but God does make us stewards of what He has blessed us with. Furthermore, verse 22 does say, "A good man leaves an inheritance for his children's children." The Bible is full of direction in how to manage our finances. Verse 11b says, "[H]e who gathers money little by little makes it grow." Our society has trained us to want things immediately. But that is not God's way; therefore, that is not the way of wisdom.
This leads to an area related to money matters. What does it take to save money? Diligence and discipline. We must also consider an opposite trait: laziness. Most of us struggle with this in some area of our lives. What warning does God give? "The sluggard craves and gets nothing, but the desires of the diligent are fully satisfied" (Prov. 13:4). If you really want something, you'd better be prepared to work for it. God does bless us with things when we don't deserve them, but because He is a God of justice, He also rewards people for their hard work. And don't you just feel better when you've accomplished something, particularly when you didn't feel like doing it? The phrase "A clean house is a godly house" just popped into my head. Hmmm...sigh!
There are two other verses I found in Proverbs 13 that I'd like to share.
"Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice" (Prov. 13:10). Isn't that true? When we humble ourselves, things seem to be so much more peaceful. And when you are humble, it's easier to accept your flaws and learn how to improve in those areas. Who wouldn't want to improve himself or herself?
"He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm" (Prov. 13:20). Here is yet another warning about choosing your company. Whatever you are allowing yourself to be exposed to, whether it's the people with whom you interact, the television shows you watch, or the food you eat, that is what you will become. We must be very careful about what we take into our minds, hearts, and bodies.
Being a Christ-follower is a tough business. No one ever said it would be easy. Jesus said that His burden is light, though, compared to the burdens we carry with our own strength alone. So remember today that He's there to help you carry whatever it is you're dealing with. Give up your humanly pride and ask Him for some help. He wants you to look like Him, so He's eager to help you.
Wednesday, October 12, 2005
Words, Relationships, and Other Thoughts
Proverbs 12 holds quite a few juicy morsels about how to have successful relationships, and one of the most important topics is words. Verse 18 says, "Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing." It's the old saying that you can't take back words that you've said. And many times, we don't have malice in our hearts when we say something, but it is actually hurtful. Speaking thoughtlessly, without considering your words before you speak them is very dangerous. Verse 25 says, "An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up." Several of you wrote e-mails to me yesterday to cheer me up. I've been "weighed down" by several things recently, and you honored God by reaching out to me. Thank you. This heart ain't so anxious today!
Now what about when someone says something mean or thoughtless to you? This is a tought one, guys, but verse 16 says, "A fool shows his annoyance at once, but a prudent man overlooks an insult." As one of my friends' pastors says, either say "amen" or say "ouch." When someone cuts you off on the highway, what is your first, immediate response? Yeah, I know. Honesty, even with yourself, can hurt. I am not the most peaceful person when it comes to reacting to others on the road. I'm better than I used to be, but it's not an area I've yet mastered. Verse 20b may help. It says, "There is...joy for those who promote peace." If I have pursuing joy in my life, I must promote peace. And that means weeding out even bad feelings in my heart. Just keeping your mouth shut isn't enough as a child of God.
A few other verses I found interesting...
"Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is stupid." (Prov. 12:1) Wow! Honestly, how many of us likes to be corrected? But if we hate it and rebel against correction, then we are stupid. It really makes sense when you think about it. If you are wrong, why would you want to remain being wrong?
"Better to be a nobody and yet have a servant than pretend to be somebody and have no food." (Prov. 12:9) Our society encourages us to "keep up with the Joneses." Often this effort leads to financial ruin and can ultimately dissolve relationships. So, it's better to know your financial situation and live within your means than to present the facade of having tons of money and end up with nothing on which to survive.
"A wife of noble character is her husband's crown." (Prov. 12:4a) My husband's first name means "crowned one," and I have teased him that without me, his name is meaningless! Seriously, though, we are to respect our spouses, and one of the ways to do that is through your own behavior in all areas of life. What others see of you is a reflection on your spouse.
May these little pearls of Scripture bless you today.
Now what about when someone says something mean or thoughtless to you? This is a tought one, guys, but verse 16 says, "A fool shows his annoyance at once, but a prudent man overlooks an insult." As one of my friends' pastors says, either say "amen" or say "ouch." When someone cuts you off on the highway, what is your first, immediate response? Yeah, I know. Honesty, even with yourself, can hurt. I am not the most peaceful person when it comes to reacting to others on the road. I'm better than I used to be, but it's not an area I've yet mastered. Verse 20b may help. It says, "There is...joy for those who promote peace." If I have pursuing joy in my life, I must promote peace. And that means weeding out even bad feelings in my heart. Just keeping your mouth shut isn't enough as a child of God.
A few other verses I found interesting...
"Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is stupid." (Prov. 12:1) Wow! Honestly, how many of us likes to be corrected? But if we hate it and rebel against correction, then we are stupid. It really makes sense when you think about it. If you are wrong, why would you want to remain being wrong?
"Better to be a nobody and yet have a servant than pretend to be somebody and have no food." (Prov. 12:9) Our society encourages us to "keep up with the Joneses." Often this effort leads to financial ruin and can ultimately dissolve relationships. So, it's better to know your financial situation and live within your means than to present the facade of having tons of money and end up with nothing on which to survive.
"A wife of noble character is her husband's crown." (Prov. 12:4a) My husband's first name means "crowned one," and I have teased him that without me, his name is meaningless! Seriously, though, we are to respect our spouses, and one of the ways to do that is through your own behavior in all areas of life. What others see of you is a reflection on your spouse.
May these little pearls of Scripture bless you today.
Tuesday, October 11, 2005
Keep Trusting
In the past few days I've been struggling with frustration in a few situations. Proverbs 11 contains some nuggets of wisdom that have given me renewed hope. Here are some highlights:
"The righteousness of the blameless makes a straight way for them." (Prov. 11:5a) Life is full of confusion. But if you are following God's ways, life is less confusing and can sometimes be seen with complete clarity.
"For lack of guidance a nation falls, but many advisers make victory sure." (Prov. 11:14) Makes sense for decisionmaking on a national level, but this verse also serves as a reminder to us everyday folk that we need to be very careful from whom we solicit advice.
"[H]e who sows righteousness reaps a sure reward." (Prov. 11:18b) The origin of my first name means "reaper," so I have always liked Galatians 6:7, which says, "A man reaps what he sows." And lately I haven't felt like I've been reaping much despite my efforts, but I will trust in God's faithfulness and timing to give me what I need when it is the right time.
"Be sure of this: The wicked will not go unpunished, but those who are righteous will go free." (Prov. 11:21) Whew, thank goodness! Injustices run rampant in our world, so it is wise to trust God that it will all "come out in the wash" in the end.
"A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed." (Prov. 11:25) I have found that when I am feeling sorry for myself, the best remedy is to do something kind for someone else. Try it.
I pray these short sayings will be a blessing to you today.
"The righteousness of the blameless makes a straight way for them." (Prov. 11:5a) Life is full of confusion. But if you are following God's ways, life is less confusing and can sometimes be seen with complete clarity.
"For lack of guidance a nation falls, but many advisers make victory sure." (Prov. 11:14) Makes sense for decisionmaking on a national level, but this verse also serves as a reminder to us everyday folk that we need to be very careful from whom we solicit advice.
"[H]e who sows righteousness reaps a sure reward." (Prov. 11:18b) The origin of my first name means "reaper," so I have always liked Galatians 6:7, which says, "A man reaps what he sows." And lately I haven't felt like I've been reaping much despite my efforts, but I will trust in God's faithfulness and timing to give me what I need when it is the right time.
"Be sure of this: The wicked will not go unpunished, but those who are righteous will go free." (Prov. 11:21) Whew, thank goodness! Injustices run rampant in our world, so it is wise to trust God that it will all "come out in the wash" in the end.
"A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed." (Prov. 11:25) I have found that when I am feeling sorry for myself, the best remedy is to do something kind for someone else. Try it.
I pray these short sayings will be a blessing to you today.
Monday, October 10, 2005
Wisdom Vs. Foolishness
Proverbs 10 is comprised of 32 verses, most of them a comparison between wisdom and foolishness, 0r the righteous and the wicked. I'll list a few that stood out when I read the chapter.
"A wise son bring joy to his father, but a foolish son grief to his mother." (Prov. 10:1) Although a selfish reason, that's a reason to invest in the upbringing of one's child. If you want joy in your life, you'd better pay attention to your kids. I know sometimes even attention, love, and discipline does not prevent a child from becoming foolish. But this verse can serve as a warning to parents of how vital it is to make their children's character development a priority. And if you're feeling sorry for yourself today but have amazing kids, take comfort in that blessing today.
"Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers all wrongs." (Prov. 10:12) I think this is my favorite verse in this chapter. It can apply to our human relationships as well as God's relationship with us. Hatred is not easily concealed. And where there is hatred, there is not peace. But when you love someone, in spite of their flaws, peace can grow. You may not love their actions, but didn't God love us even when we were sinners, before we accepted Him? And He will continue to love us, no matter what.
"When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise." (Prov. 10:19) Not much to say about that, is there? Sometimes you just need to keep your mouth shut.
"When the storm has swept by, the wicked are gone, but the righteous stand firm forever." (Prov. 10:25) Storms will come to believers. We live in a fallen world, so bad things will happen. But if the roots of your faith are deep, you will stand no matter what evil does.
"The prospect of the righteous is joy, but the hopes of the wicked come to nothing." (Prov. 10:28) When your desires are to follow God and receive the blessings of his peace, comfort, and joy, you will receive them.
"A wise son bring joy to his father, but a foolish son grief to his mother." (Prov. 10:1) Although a selfish reason, that's a reason to invest in the upbringing of one's child. If you want joy in your life, you'd better pay attention to your kids. I know sometimes even attention, love, and discipline does not prevent a child from becoming foolish. But this verse can serve as a warning to parents of how vital it is to make their children's character development a priority. And if you're feeling sorry for yourself today but have amazing kids, take comfort in that blessing today.
"Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers all wrongs." (Prov. 10:12) I think this is my favorite verse in this chapter. It can apply to our human relationships as well as God's relationship with us. Hatred is not easily concealed. And where there is hatred, there is not peace. But when you love someone, in spite of their flaws, peace can grow. You may not love their actions, but didn't God love us even when we were sinners, before we accepted Him? And He will continue to love us, no matter what.
"When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise." (Prov. 10:19) Not much to say about that, is there? Sometimes you just need to keep your mouth shut.
"When the storm has swept by, the wicked are gone, but the righteous stand firm forever." (Prov. 10:25) Storms will come to believers. We live in a fallen world, so bad things will happen. But if the roots of your faith are deep, you will stand no matter what evil does.
"The prospect of the righteous is joy, but the hopes of the wicked come to nothing." (Prov. 10:28) When your desires are to follow God and receive the blessings of his peace, comfort, and joy, you will receive them.
Friday, October 07, 2005
Like an Ox to the Slaughter
If one doesn't get it Proverbs 5, maybe Proverbs 7 will convince a reader to think twice before entering into a relationship with someone not his or her spouse. Remember in chapter 5, Solomon said not to even go near the house of another. In other words, do not put yourself in a compromising position.
In chapter 7, Solomon paints the picture of a young man who goes to the house of a woman. It is twilight, and darkness was coming. Interesting imagery, eh? He was not walking in the light of wisdom. The woman tells him that her husband is gone and won't be back till the full moon. What idiots. How many TV shows or movies have included a scene in which the absent spouse comes home early? And furthermore, how can one be so stupid to think no one will ever know. The Big Guy in the sky knows, and He's the only one that matters. For this and so many other reasons, we need to guard our hearts and our minds so that Satan cannot even get a foot in the door.
Listen to what Solomon says about adultery:
"[The young man] followed her like an ox going to the slaughter, like a deer stepping into a noose till an arrow pierces his liver, like a bird darting into a snare, little knowing it will cost him his life...Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng. Her house is a highway to the grave, leading down to the chambers of death" (Prov. 7:22-23, 26-27).
We have heard and experienced so many stories of marriages and families broken by violations of marital vows. The effects on the spouses (both spouses) and the children are detrimental and longlasting. Protecting one's marriage from violations, whether they are with flesh and blood or through cyberspace (tonight there will be a feature on Christianity and pornography on World News Tonight), is imperative and requires action. So do what you need to do.
As I discovered this morning that Solomon was writing about adultery again, I began to wonder about this man that had numerous wives and more concubines. Who is he to write about the dangers of adultery, I thought with annoyance. Then I remembered that he also wrote Song of Solomon. Scholars have theorized that he really loved only one woman. Hmmmm. Could it be that Solomon could write about adultery because he had experienced himself the pain of disloyalty to one's love? I also remembered that Solomon was the second son of David and Bathsheba. Their first son was conceived in an act of adultery and died as a baby. Could Solomon be passing on these words about adultery because his father, David, warned him about the dangers of it? Sounds likely. The lessons of the Bible seem so much more significant when one realizes that these things happened to real people.
Guard your hearts, my friends, and be proactive about protecting your relationships.
In chapter 7, Solomon paints the picture of a young man who goes to the house of a woman. It is twilight, and darkness was coming. Interesting imagery, eh? He was not walking in the light of wisdom. The woman tells him that her husband is gone and won't be back till the full moon. What idiots. How many TV shows or movies have included a scene in which the absent spouse comes home early? And furthermore, how can one be so stupid to think no one will ever know. The Big Guy in the sky knows, and He's the only one that matters. For this and so many other reasons, we need to guard our hearts and our minds so that Satan cannot even get a foot in the door.
Listen to what Solomon says about adultery:
"[The young man] followed her like an ox going to the slaughter, like a deer stepping into a noose till an arrow pierces his liver, like a bird darting into a snare, little knowing it will cost him his life...Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng. Her house is a highway to the grave, leading down to the chambers of death" (Prov. 7:22-23, 26-27).
We have heard and experienced so many stories of marriages and families broken by violations of marital vows. The effects on the spouses (both spouses) and the children are detrimental and longlasting. Protecting one's marriage from violations, whether they are with flesh and blood or through cyberspace (tonight there will be a feature on Christianity and pornography on World News Tonight), is imperative and requires action. So do what you need to do.
As I discovered this morning that Solomon was writing about adultery again, I began to wonder about this man that had numerous wives and more concubines. Who is he to write about the dangers of adultery, I thought with annoyance. Then I remembered that he also wrote Song of Solomon. Scholars have theorized that he really loved only one woman. Hmmmm. Could it be that Solomon could write about adultery because he had experienced himself the pain of disloyalty to one's love? I also remembered that Solomon was the second son of David and Bathsheba. Their first son was conceived in an act of adultery and died as a baby. Could Solomon be passing on these words about adultery because his father, David, warned him about the dangers of it? Sounds likely. The lessons of the Bible seem so much more significant when one realizes that these things happened to real people.
Guard your hearts, my friends, and be proactive about protecting your relationships.
Thursday, October 06, 2005
Ouch
Again and again I am amazed at how words that were written thousands of years ago in another culture can apply so easily to our lives today. Proverbs 6 contains several bits of wisdom that may inflict a bit of painful conviction when read.
One of the main concerns of a typical American is money. Money is a necessary evil, I like to say. We need it to pay for our housing, clothing, food, and other things that are basic needs. Unfortunately, many of us spend money as if we will never run out of it. There are 2,350 verses about money in the Bible (Crown Financial Ministries, 2003). Clearly, God thinks it is important how we view and deal with money. Solomon addresses the danger of laziness, but I think we can read the following passage in the context of being lazy about managing our finances. "Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise! It has no commander, no overseer or ruler, yet it stores its provisions in summer and gathers its food at harvest...A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest--and poverty will come on you like a bandit and scarcity like an armed man" (Prov. 6:6-8, 10-11). Nothing is certain, so God wants us to be prepared financially. We must also be realistic and honest with ourselves about preparing for retirement. Solomon uses the example of the ant to show that even this little creature knows that winter is coming, so it prepares for it. Proverbs offers more advice on money management in later chapters, so I'll save those for later.
Verses 16 through 19 list seven things that are "detestable" to God. They are "haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers." It would be easy to read this passage and think, "That's right! That person at work did that to me. That neighbor of mine is that way!" As Joyce Meyer would say, "Come on now!" Jesus said, "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?" (Luke 6:41). And it is undeniable that Jesus does not care for hypocrisy. Have you ever thought yourself better than someone else? Those are haughty eyes. Have you ever told a lie of any sort? (I hope none of your noses are growing in length when you answer that question!) You may not have ever killed anyone (I sure hope not), but have you ever allowed someone to take the blame for something you did? Have you ever manipulated a situation for your own benefit without considering others' desires or needs? Have you ever impulsively taken the easy way out of a difficult situation even though it was wrong? Have you ever presented things in a way that was not accurate? And as for stirring up dissension, you may not always instigate disagreements (and I know we even do that sometimes), but how much do you actively do to create peace? Jesus said, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons (and daughters!) of God" (Matthew 5:9). There is more to creating peace than just keeping your mouth shut. It is speaking about yourself and others with grace. None of us is perfect. None. Therefore, watch your mouth and be aware of the messages that come out of it.
Before you run off with your tail between your legs to lick your wounds (I know I feel that way), remember what Solomon's desire is in dispensing wisdom. He says, "[T]hese commands are a lamp, this teaching is a light, and the corrections of discipline are the way to life..." (Prov. 6:23). Wisdom is to bring you life, abundant life. And God knew that we were imperfect, and He loved us so much, He made a way to redeem us. Wow. Okay, I just used BibleGateway.com to look for a verse about how Christ is our righteousness. Here's what came up: "It is because of him (God) that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God--that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption" (I Corinthians 1:30). I didn't even know about the bit about Christ's becoming our wisdom. God uses our weaknesses to His glory. The verses before verse 30 even talk about that. Pretty neat-o! I love it when God drops things like that in my lap! It's only 8:10 in the morning, and I've been given a super gift from heaven.
My prayer is that you keep your eyes peeled, ready for God's gift (okay, there are many, so it shouldn't be too hard) for you today.
One of the main concerns of a typical American is money. Money is a necessary evil, I like to say. We need it to pay for our housing, clothing, food, and other things that are basic needs. Unfortunately, many of us spend money as if we will never run out of it. There are 2,350 verses about money in the Bible (Crown Financial Ministries, 2003). Clearly, God thinks it is important how we view and deal with money. Solomon addresses the danger of laziness, but I think we can read the following passage in the context of being lazy about managing our finances. "Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise! It has no commander, no overseer or ruler, yet it stores its provisions in summer and gathers its food at harvest...A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest--and poverty will come on you like a bandit and scarcity like an armed man" (Prov. 6:6-8, 10-11). Nothing is certain, so God wants us to be prepared financially. We must also be realistic and honest with ourselves about preparing for retirement. Solomon uses the example of the ant to show that even this little creature knows that winter is coming, so it prepares for it. Proverbs offers more advice on money management in later chapters, so I'll save those for later.
Verses 16 through 19 list seven things that are "detestable" to God. They are "haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers." It would be easy to read this passage and think, "That's right! That person at work did that to me. That neighbor of mine is that way!" As Joyce Meyer would say, "Come on now!" Jesus said, "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?" (Luke 6:41). And it is undeniable that Jesus does not care for hypocrisy. Have you ever thought yourself better than someone else? Those are haughty eyes. Have you ever told a lie of any sort? (I hope none of your noses are growing in length when you answer that question!) You may not have ever killed anyone (I sure hope not), but have you ever allowed someone to take the blame for something you did? Have you ever manipulated a situation for your own benefit without considering others' desires or needs? Have you ever impulsively taken the easy way out of a difficult situation even though it was wrong? Have you ever presented things in a way that was not accurate? And as for stirring up dissension, you may not always instigate disagreements (and I know we even do that sometimes), but how much do you actively do to create peace? Jesus said, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons (and daughters!) of God" (Matthew 5:9). There is more to creating peace than just keeping your mouth shut. It is speaking about yourself and others with grace. None of us is perfect. None. Therefore, watch your mouth and be aware of the messages that come out of it.
Before you run off with your tail between your legs to lick your wounds (I know I feel that way), remember what Solomon's desire is in dispensing wisdom. He says, "[T]hese commands are a lamp, this teaching is a light, and the corrections of discipline are the way to life..." (Prov. 6:23). Wisdom is to bring you life, abundant life. And God knew that we were imperfect, and He loved us so much, He made a way to redeem us. Wow. Okay, I just used BibleGateway.com to look for a verse about how Christ is our righteousness. Here's what came up: "It is because of him (God) that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God--that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption" (I Corinthians 1:30). I didn't even know about the bit about Christ's becoming our wisdom. God uses our weaknesses to His glory. The verses before verse 30 even talk about that. Pretty neat-o! I love it when God drops things like that in my lap! It's only 8:10 in the morning, and I've been given a super gift from heaven.
My prayer is that you keep your eyes peeled, ready for God's gift (okay, there are many, so it shouldn't be too hard) for you today.
Wednesday, October 05, 2005
Don't Even Go There
The title in the NIV for Proverbs 5 is "Warning Against Adultery." Alrighty. Not a topic I can wax poetic about. But it's definitely something to consider when you are pursuing wisdom. Becoming intimately involved with someone who is not your spouse is not wise! Solomon spends much of the chapter talking about the repercussions of adultery. I'd like to focus on two passages that I think are the main points.
1) Just don't even go there. Don't put yourself in situations that could compromise your marital vows. I believe it was Billy Graham who has always refused to be in any room with a woman other than his wife with the door closed. I can't remember if it was also Billy Graham who ascribed to this or if I've just heard it as a suggestion, but I've also heard of a man refusing to eat dinner alone with a woman who was not his wife. In these days of extensive travel for business, making that resolution is a definite stand for one's marriage. Here's what Solomon said: "Keep to a path far from [an adulteress], do not go near the door of her house" (Prov. 5:8).
So if that's what we ought not do, what should we do? "May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth...[M]ay you ever be captivated by her love" (Prov. 5:18, 19b). Do we always feel like rejoicing? No. But God calls us to rejoice and be thankful in all circumstances. All relationships need to be maintained. The other key is that we need to submit to one another. Marriages cannot be blessings when there is self-centeredness.
2) Solomon also reminds that "a man's ways are in full view of the LORD, and he examines all his paths" (Prov. 5:21). We may think that we are getting away with something, but we are fools to ever think that. God is always aware of what we are doing, thinking, and feeling. We cannot hide from God. As David said, "O LORD, you have searched me and you know me...[Y]ou perceive my thoughts from afar...Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?" (Psalm 139:1, 2a, 7).
Furthermore, Solomon warns that "[t]he evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast. He will die for lack of discipline, led astray by his own great folly" (Prov. 5:22-23). These words echo the earlier chapters. Wisdom gives life and even long life, whereas folly leads to withering death.
Ask God to protect and strengthen your relationships today and show you what you need to do to nurture them.
1) Just don't even go there. Don't put yourself in situations that could compromise your marital vows. I believe it was Billy Graham who has always refused to be in any room with a woman other than his wife with the door closed. I can't remember if it was also Billy Graham who ascribed to this or if I've just heard it as a suggestion, but I've also heard of a man refusing to eat dinner alone with a woman who was not his wife. In these days of extensive travel for business, making that resolution is a definite stand for one's marriage. Here's what Solomon said: "Keep to a path far from [an adulteress], do not go near the door of her house" (Prov. 5:8).
So if that's what we ought not do, what should we do? "May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth...[M]ay you ever be captivated by her love" (Prov. 5:18, 19b). Do we always feel like rejoicing? No. But God calls us to rejoice and be thankful in all circumstances. All relationships need to be maintained. The other key is that we need to submit to one another. Marriages cannot be blessings when there is self-centeredness.
2) Solomon also reminds that "a man's ways are in full view of the LORD, and he examines all his paths" (Prov. 5:21). We may think that we are getting away with something, but we are fools to ever think that. God is always aware of what we are doing, thinking, and feeling. We cannot hide from God. As David said, "O LORD, you have searched me and you know me...[Y]ou perceive my thoughts from afar...Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?" (Psalm 139:1, 2a, 7).
Furthermore, Solomon warns that "[t]he evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast. He will die for lack of discipline, led astray by his own great folly" (Prov. 5:22-23). These words echo the earlier chapters. Wisdom gives life and even long life, whereas folly leads to withering death.
Ask God to protect and strengthen your relationships today and show you what you need to do to nurture them.
Tuesday, October 04, 2005
Walking in Wisdom
In Proverbs 3, we learned that the fear of God and knowledge can help us to lead long, healthy lives. This idea is presented again in Proverbs 4. However, in this chapter Solomon declares that cultivating knowledge and heeding instruction not only leads to longer life but is actually life itself. Listen to these verses.
"'[K]eep my commands and you will live'" (Prov. 4:4a).
"Hold on to instruction, do not let it go; guard it well, for it is your life" (Prov. 4:13).
"[My words] are life to those who find them and health to a man's whole body" (Prov. 4:22).
In times when you have stumbled around in your life, haven't you felt your spirit was withering? We don't feel alive in those seasons of confusion and frustration. We also feel as if we are wandering, even going around in circles. And it is dark. So what does it feel like to walk in wisdom?
"I guide you in the way of wisdom and lead you along straight paths. When you walk, your steps will not be hampered; when you run, you will not stumble" (Prov. 4:11-12).
"The path of the righteous is like the first gleam of dawn, shining ever brighter till the full light of day" (Prov. 4:18).
The road of wisdom is easy to walk. It does not wind in senseless circles or go down into valleys or uphill through difficult mountain passes. Do believers encounter valleys and uphill climbs? Of course! That is the way of life in our fallen world. But when you walk in God's ways, it's as if He has built bridges across the valleys and has cleared and leveled the land where there were mountains to climb. That is the work of wisdom.
So what is our responsibility? How can we seize the opportunity to take these easier roads? "'Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you. Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding'" (Prov. 4:6-7). Acquiring wisdom is a constant process. You can't decide one day to seek wisdom, then a week later, forget about it, then expect to pick up where you left off in another week. Sometimes pursuing wisdom means giving up other things to which you've been clinging. It may be control or material things or dependence on other people. Whatever it is, you may be called to relinquish those things in order to grasp the wisdom of God. In regard to seeking wisdom, James said, "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him" (James 1:5). Just ask God! He wants to bless you with wisdom. When Solomon asked God for wisdom, God granted it to him.
God blessed Solomon with wealth and power in addition to wisdom. This may not happen to each of us, but not only will we be protected by wisdom, but we will be blessed by it further. "'Esteem her, and she will exalt you; embrace her, and she will honor you. She will set a garland of grace on your head and present you with a crown of splendor" (Prov. 4:8-9). Those blessings may not be riches, but you will be blessed.
"'[K]eep my commands and you will live'" (Prov. 4:4a).
"Hold on to instruction, do not let it go; guard it well, for it is your life" (Prov. 4:13).
"[My words] are life to those who find them and health to a man's whole body" (Prov. 4:22).
In times when you have stumbled around in your life, haven't you felt your spirit was withering? We don't feel alive in those seasons of confusion and frustration. We also feel as if we are wandering, even going around in circles. And it is dark. So what does it feel like to walk in wisdom?
"I guide you in the way of wisdom and lead you along straight paths. When you walk, your steps will not be hampered; when you run, you will not stumble" (Prov. 4:11-12).
"The path of the righteous is like the first gleam of dawn, shining ever brighter till the full light of day" (Prov. 4:18).
The road of wisdom is easy to walk. It does not wind in senseless circles or go down into valleys or uphill through difficult mountain passes. Do believers encounter valleys and uphill climbs? Of course! That is the way of life in our fallen world. But when you walk in God's ways, it's as if He has built bridges across the valleys and has cleared and leveled the land where there were mountains to climb. That is the work of wisdom.
So what is our responsibility? How can we seize the opportunity to take these easier roads? "'Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you. Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding'" (Prov. 4:6-7). Acquiring wisdom is a constant process. You can't decide one day to seek wisdom, then a week later, forget about it, then expect to pick up where you left off in another week. Sometimes pursuing wisdom means giving up other things to which you've been clinging. It may be control or material things or dependence on other people. Whatever it is, you may be called to relinquish those things in order to grasp the wisdom of God. In regard to seeking wisdom, James said, "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him" (James 1:5). Just ask God! He wants to bless you with wisdom. When Solomon asked God for wisdom, God granted it to him.
God blessed Solomon with wealth and power in addition to wisdom. This may not happen to each of us, but not only will we be protected by wisdom, but we will be blessed by it further. "'Esteem her, and she will exalt you; embrace her, and she will honor you. She will set a garland of grace on your head and present you with a crown of splendor" (Prov. 4:8-9). Those blessings may not be riches, but you will be blessed.
Monday, October 03, 2005
How To Have a Long, Healthy Life
In the month of October, the members of my Bible class will be reading one chapter of Proverbs each day. So for the next month, I'll be passing along Solomon's words, which he graciously passed along from God.
Have you ever felt stressed? Ha! I know, I know. We all feel stressed, some more than others. Research has shown that stress actually speeds up the aging process. Stress is not conducive to a long and healthy life. So what's God's remedy? Proverbs 3:1-2 says, "My son (or daughter!), do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you prosperity." In looking back to the first and second chapters of Proverbs, you will find that fearing the LORD is the beginning of knowledge. Also, if you accept God's words, store up His commands, and ask Him for insight and understanding, "then you will understand the fear of the LORD and find the knowledge of God" (Prov. 2:5). We humans don't naturally have the knowledge of God (duh!). But He does offer His understanding to us. He sees the big picture, whereas we cannot. But fearing Him, in other words acknowledging Him as God and not ourselves, allows us to glimpse what life may look like from His perspective. When you begin to see as God sees, everyday stresses become trivial and melt away...or you will at least find it easier to cope with them. And less stress means longer, healthier, and more joyful lives. Verses 7 and 8 add to this idea: "Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones."
Do you know anyone who is a worry wart? (Maybe it's you.) He or she is always fearful of what may happen. Solomon says, "Have no fear of sudden disaster or of the ruin that overtakes the wicked, for the LORD will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being snared" (Prov. 3:25-26). God does not want you to worry. (See also Jesus' words in Matthew 6:25-34.)
So what do you do when disaster does strike? We live in a fallen world; therefore, bad things do happen. Let's go to Job and see what he did. Satan believed that if he took all of Job's possessions, from his flocks to his children to his health, that Job would curse God. But Job never did. He certainly ranted and raved about his suffering. But Job said, "Even now my witness is in heaven, my advocate is on high. My intercessor is my friend as my eyes pour out tears to God; on behalf of a man he pleads with God as a man pleads for his friend" (Job 16:19-21). He also said, "I know that my Redeemer lives, and that in the end he will stand upon the earth" (Job 19:15). Job lived well before Jesus did. And Israel did not know that Jesus was the Messiah when he was born and most did not ever believe he was the Christ. Yet Job somehow had access to the knowledge of God. Hmmmm. Have you ever had a thought that you know didn't come straight out of your head? That's God. Back to how to respond in times of trials and suffering. Will those situations make sense? Much of the time, no, they won't. But if you have practiced the habit of storing up God's words in your mind and heart and have accessed some of His understanding, it will be less difficult to cope in those times. If you have been following the steps given in Proverbs 2 and 3, it is much easier to follow the oft-quoted Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight."
So, here's to good habits, developed by the continual study of God's word, persistent pursuit of understanding and wisdom, and the resulting experience of the knowledge of God. And you know, it is said that it takes about 30 days to develop a new habit. If you're not reading the Bible daily, try reading a chapter of Proverbs a day. It just may be the beginning of real knowledge in your life.
Have you ever felt stressed? Ha! I know, I know. We all feel stressed, some more than others. Research has shown that stress actually speeds up the aging process. Stress is not conducive to a long and healthy life. So what's God's remedy? Proverbs 3:1-2 says, "My son (or daughter!), do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you prosperity." In looking back to the first and second chapters of Proverbs, you will find that fearing the LORD is the beginning of knowledge. Also, if you accept God's words, store up His commands, and ask Him for insight and understanding, "then you will understand the fear of the LORD and find the knowledge of God" (Prov. 2:5). We humans don't naturally have the knowledge of God (duh!). But He does offer His understanding to us. He sees the big picture, whereas we cannot. But fearing Him, in other words acknowledging Him as God and not ourselves, allows us to glimpse what life may look like from His perspective. When you begin to see as God sees, everyday stresses become trivial and melt away...or you will at least find it easier to cope with them. And less stress means longer, healthier, and more joyful lives. Verses 7 and 8 add to this idea: "Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones."
Do you know anyone who is a worry wart? (Maybe it's you.) He or she is always fearful of what may happen. Solomon says, "Have no fear of sudden disaster or of the ruin that overtakes the wicked, for the LORD will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being snared" (Prov. 3:25-26). God does not want you to worry. (See also Jesus' words in Matthew 6:25-34.)
So what do you do when disaster does strike? We live in a fallen world; therefore, bad things do happen. Let's go to Job and see what he did. Satan believed that if he took all of Job's possessions, from his flocks to his children to his health, that Job would curse God. But Job never did. He certainly ranted and raved about his suffering. But Job said, "Even now my witness is in heaven, my advocate is on high. My intercessor is my friend as my eyes pour out tears to God; on behalf of a man he pleads with God as a man pleads for his friend" (Job 16:19-21). He also said, "I know that my Redeemer lives, and that in the end he will stand upon the earth" (Job 19:15). Job lived well before Jesus did. And Israel did not know that Jesus was the Messiah when he was born and most did not ever believe he was the Christ. Yet Job somehow had access to the knowledge of God. Hmmmm. Have you ever had a thought that you know didn't come straight out of your head? That's God. Back to how to respond in times of trials and suffering. Will those situations make sense? Much of the time, no, they won't. But if you have practiced the habit of storing up God's words in your mind and heart and have accessed some of His understanding, it will be less difficult to cope in those times. If you have been following the steps given in Proverbs 2 and 3, it is much easier to follow the oft-quoted Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight."
So, here's to good habits, developed by the continual study of God's word, persistent pursuit of understanding and wisdom, and the resulting experience of the knowledge of God. And you know, it is said that it takes about 30 days to develop a new habit. If you're not reading the Bible daily, try reading a chapter of Proverbs a day. It just may be the beginning of real knowledge in your life.
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